1 Peter 3 — T4T
You women should submit yourselves to your husbands, even if they are not believers, and make your inner beings/hearts beautiful with qualities that will not fade away.
3Verse 1You women believers, just like slaves should submit themselves to their masters, submit yourselves to your husbands. Do that in order that if any of them do not believe the message about Christ, they may become believers without it being necessary for you to say anything to them about their relationship to God.Verse 2They will believe in Christ when they see that you respect them and that your way of life is pure.Verse 3Do not be trying to make yourselves beautiful by decorating the outside of your bodies, such as ◄by the way you comb your hair/by your hair style► or by wearing gold jewelry and fine clothes.Verse 4Instead, make your ◄inner beings/hearts► beautiful with qualities/attitudes that will not fade away. Specifically, have a humble and quiet/calm attitude, which is something that God considers to be very valuable.Verse 5◄The devout women/The women who habitually worshipped God► who lived long ago and who trusted in God made themselves beautiful by having attitudes like that, and by being submissive to their husbands.Verse 6Sarah, for example, obeyed her husband Abraham and called him ‘my master’. You will be as though you are [MET] her daughters if you do what is right and are not afraid of what your husbands or anyone else may do to you because you are believers.You men must live in an appropriate way with your wives, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
Verse 7You men who are believers, just like your wives should respect you, you should conduct your lives in an appropriate way with them. Treat them respectfully, realizing that they are usually weaker than you are, and realizing that ◄they share with you/both of you have► the gift that God has kindly given to you, which is eternal life. Do this so that nothing will hinder you from praying (OR, hinder God ◄from answering/from doing what you ask for► when you pray).Agree with each other, love each other, be humble, and bless those who do evil things to you instead of retaliating.
Verse 8To end this part of my letter, I say to all of you, agree with each other in what you think. Be sympathetic toward each other. Love each other as members of the same family should. Act compassionately toward each other. Be humble.Verse 9When people do evil things to you or insult you, do not ◄retaliate/repay them by► doing evil things to them or insulting them. Instead, ask God to bless them, because that is what you have been chosen by God {what God called you} to do, in order that you may receive a blessing from him.Verse 10Consider what the Psalmist wrote about the proper way of conducting our lives,As for those who want ◄to enjoy life/to live happily► and experience good things happening to them every day,they must not say [MTY] something that is evil or say [MTY] something that deceives others.
Verse 11They must continually turn away from doing anything that is evil, and must do things that are good instead.
They must deeply desire to enable people to act peacefully toward each other;
they must zealously urge people to act in a peaceful way,
Verse 12because the Lord sees [MTY] what righteous people do and he appreciates/likes what they do.
He listens to righteous people when they pray, and he answers them.
But he is [MTY] opposed to those who do evil things.